Monday, 4 May 2015

Shang hai: the (very) good, the bad and the ugly

Shang hai was a real mixed-bag experience for Rob and I. It has probably been the only place so far where we were definitely ready to leave. This probably should not reflect on the city itself and more on some unfortunate happenings and frustrations that could have happened anywhere.

The (very) good
A highlight of our time in Shanghai was easily our viewing of the CircusWorld: ERA performance. Everyone we knew who had visited Shanghai had recommended this to us. It was very entertaining and the performers were extremely skilled. I could not fathom how they achieved many elements of the show! I was impressed with the artistic integration of live performance and video, as well as the effective use of space. My favourite performance involved a man using the crook of his ankle to lop several bowls onto his head, all this while balancing on several layers of wood planks with glasses wobbling in-between. (Oh and this was in a boat.) Rob most enjoyed an acrobatic ribbon dance that saw a couple flying round the stage, held up by the ribbons and each other.

Circus night

We also really enjoyed the contrast of old and new in Shanghai, the flowers and gardens, some fabulous dumplings, scrumptious pancakes and the waitress that spontaneously stroked Rob’s arm to touch his hair!

The new!

Enjoying a garden break

Spring: a nice time to visit Shanghai

The bad
Shanghai promised to be the place we would finally, after much hard work on an application initiated in 2014, receive our visa’s to Russia. The backbone of our trip and a part of both our travel dreams was to across Russia on the Trans-Mongolian route. It was how we described our trip before we left. However, as we found out in Shanghai, it was not to be. More details here.

Our attempts to doing anything on the internet in Shanghai were continually hampered by the Great Firewall of China. I had no idea it would be this hard. We had set-up a VPN before entering- it did not work. The biggest problem was not being able to reliably access gmail and use google maps to organise our onward travel. I now truly understand how much command Google has over us and a multitude of websites!

The ugly
A day after our visa disappointment, we met some con artists. I like to think our experience with the well-known* tea ceremony scam is further evidence that anyone is susceptible to the work of such people. (I have done a little bit of research in the psychology of sales.) All the signs were there (distraction: check, “you’re like us”: check, reciprocity effect: check, likeability: check, etc, etc.) but somehow we kept going. I think we felt defeated after our visa let down and wanted someone to be friendly to us. We also hadn’t found too many people to hold a conversation with in awhile. All that said, and despite the fact I know that this is what these people do for living and that they are good at it, we still felt stupid afterwards. And though this could have happened anywhere in the world, it has left an impression on us that we will always somewhat associate with Shanghai. On the positive side, we did see short tea ceremony, have a conversation that day and it didn’t leave too much of a hole in our pockets.

*Well known but well…we didn’t know!

Not a parade: manning the crossings on a busy Shang Hai night. We (maybe) needed one of these guys in our tea "party"
Such tourists! 
We still enjoyed much of our time in Shanghai but it probably not somewhere I will hurry back to.

SHANG HAI TIPS:
* Go to ERA performance: you will not be disappointed. 
* Shang hai is beautiful in Spring.
* There are friendly people in the world but some that appear friendly in Shang hai will be the infamous tea ceremony scammers-  be on alert!

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